What is class?
class /klas/
Class is having or reflecting high standards of personal behavior by displaying etiquette. Being a classy woman does not mean you are perfect or without flaw, but it means that dignity, consideration, & moderation are present in your daily actions.
The transition from young girl to grown woman is an essential process in the development of mental growth. When a lady ages, the attributes of her femininity are more prominent than ever in her personality. When a woman carries herself well it signifies the self-worth & the respect she has for who she is. Being classy is exemplifying the most refined version of oneself.
♡ Presentation is everything. You are what you represent so always come correct & present yourself well. Find beautiful & unique ways to express yourself through your wardrobe, makeup & hair. A true lady owns her identity & walks in her unwavering confidence. Think about it like a job interview. When you’re trying to get a job you want to look professional as possible to get the company to take you seriously enough to want to hire you. If you look the part, then you will have higher chances of being considered for the position because you carried yourself well & put effort into your appearance. When you apply that to every day life it can work the same way. How you look is usually how you feel about yourself, so get up, dress up, & never give up on your standards because you deserve to look like the best version of you! What kind of classy baddie are you? ♔
♡ Manners can get you anything you want. Baby girl, you’d be surprised by how far a simple ‘Thank you’ or ‘Please’ will get you these days. How you speak is an idea of your literacy and knowledge when you converse with your peers. Be sure to know how to start a conversation & be vocal about your truths & beliefs & know what to say & what not to say at the right moments. Knowing how to act around different personalities gives you a sense of who you are and how you react to situations, so knowing how to be is necessary with all walks of life. ♔
♡ What you post on social media is an extension of you, so be mindful of the things you put out there. The media is driven by the perception of your personality traits by pictures, posts, statuses, tweets, & videos. It gives the thought of who you may be off of these platforms, & even gives a sense of your interests & dislikes. Pay attention to what you publish because you never know who is watching. Think about the characteristics you want to display that ultimately determine what type of person you are. Are these traits adding up to your social feeds, or displaying something you’ve created? With social media it is important to be aware of who & what you attract. What vibe are you giving off to represent who you are? Make sure it’s something you’re proud of. Image is very important for the classy woman. ♔
♡ Self-control is a skill that every woman must eventually master. Controlling your emotions is the key to monitoring your behavior through situations that may not always be easy. For example, if there is a person who is acting negatively towards you, then you must know how to manage your emotions & display your true character by not letting them get the best of you; forcing you to also react negatively. A woman knows exactly how to act even in an impulsive state because she has full control of her thought process. Sometimes no response is the best response. Never let anyone see you sweat, love. You are fully in control of what you say & do. ♔
♡ Confidence is a woman’s secret weapon. There is nothing like a lady who is sure of herself & knows exactly what she wants. Not only does she know what she wants, but she takes the required actions to get her to where she needs to be. Having confidence in who you are is an appreciation to yourself; knowing that you have the qualities to be capable of handling anything that comes your way. Having trust in who you are will give you the full ability to be comfortable in expressing your true identity & making good decisions for yourself. ♔
♡ A classy woman has good intent & she does everything with purpose & meaning. Whatever you’re doing be sure to think about why you’re doing it. Will it make you a better person, or will it represent you in a negative light? Be intentional with your decisions. The actions you make will either have good or bad consequences, so always be conscious of your motives. Do you have good intentions or bad intentions? ♔
♡ Happy women are the most beautiful. Yes, presentation means everything to a woman, but what she feels on the inside is just as important as her exterior. When you think positively it changes the state of your mindset to a joyful one; which causes you to have good emotions towards yourself & others. Have you ever seen a woman who smiled at you, or complimented you, & it made you feel good about yourself? On the other hand, have you seen a beautiful woman who acted mean or rude to people & you notice more of their treatment towards others rather than the beauty they hold? The first woman can be seen as more beautiful because of the sincerity she expressed to you, while the other woman who could potentially be “viewed ” as more attractive based off of society’s beauty standards, didn’t showcase that by how she acted; so it was overlooked. Happiness can overpower beauty, so it is important for a lady to be mindful of her mental state because it can make or break the impression of her. “Happy Girls Are The Prettiest.” -Audrey Hepburn ♔
𝓛𝓸𝓿𝓮,
𝓨𝓸𝓾𝓻 𝓑𝓸𝓾𝓰𝓲𝓮 𝓑𝓲𝓰 𝓢𝓲𝓼
𝓣𝓪𝔂𝓵𝓪 ♡